“Imagine the reality of dealing with an affair, a broken marriage, legalities if divorce is a reality, and then AIDS on top of all of that.” I was asked to write a short article for readers pertaining to the warning signs in a marriage that can lead to an affair. Although I specialize in Infidelity and relational issues, I am always saddened to hear of behaviors that clearly show that a marriage is in trouble, potentially heading toward an affair. Early intervention with the